Understanding Behaviour

Do you ever wonder what your child might be trying to communicate through their behaviour?

Behaviour can be described as a ‘response or action that can be seen, heard or felt’. It has two main functions: to obtain something or to avoid something. It can also be a way for a child to communicate feelings and needs to those around them.

Tiredness, hunger or a new addition to the family, such as a sibling may often influence a child’s behaviour. As your child develops this can also help them to manage their behaviour, as skills such as communication, problem-solving and social interaction strengthen with age.

As younger children learn how things move and work, they may throw or bang objects, whilst they may also test the responses of people around them with high-pitched screaming and shouting. In order to help your child to solve problems, develop relationships and make appropriate choices, you should encourage them to deal with minor problems or incidents independently. Give them lots of praise and encouragement when they manage things well.

Every child is different and will deal with situations in a variety of ways, which can be reflected by their behaviour. If you would like to speak to someone about your child’s behaviour, e-mail familysupport@tlpcc.org.uk and a member of the Children and Family Centre team will be in touch.